Program: Real FamilyLife (90 Seconds)

 

 

Dennis Rainey: Why does it seem that commitment in marriage is so rare today?

Guest: I think it's not as much "is there a right person?" as that there's a right person for right then. Marriage is something that should be made to last. But sometimes, you can still care for that person, but you know that they're not what you need. I mean, if you've got to move on, I hate to say it, move on.[ Read Full Transcript ]

Dennis Rainey: Unfortunately, a lot of husbands and wives are moving on when they need to stay put and honor the commitment they made to one another. I once ran across a personal ad in the newspaper. I saved it because it really tells us something about the times we're in. It read:

"To Mary. My love for you would climb the highest mountain. My love for you would cross the hottest desert. My love for you would cause me to die at the stake for you. Love Jim.

P.S. I'll see you Sunday, if it doesn't rain."

One final thought. Your mate needs to know that you'll stay committed to them, not only when romantic feelings are strong, but also when the storms roll in and make life difficult. If you haven't affirmed your commitment to your mate in a while, why don't you tell them you'll be faithful, rain or shine.

I'm Dennis Rainey, and that's Real FamilyLife.