Give Yourself Up
Men, we often need to give things up in order to truly show love to our wives.
Program: Real FamilyLife (90 seconds)
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Dennis Rainey: Men, we often need to give things up in order to truly show love to our wives.
Bob Lepine: We talked with this woman about ways her husband sacrifices for her.
Guest: He very often, when we are going to eat together, offers me what to me seems obviously like the better or more desirable plate, or portion. He's very self - sacrificing.[ Read Full Transcript ]
Dennis Rainey: Men, are you truly sacrificing for your wife? It's easy to compare ourselves with other men and think we're doing pretty good. But the apostle Paul gave us a very high standard when he said, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her."
A great lover knows how to give up his desires in order to love his wife. Loving our wives may mean setting aside some things we value, such as a golf game, a day off, or a fishing trip.
It may mean helping with the children, meals and household chores, especially for men whose wives work outside the home. It may mean giving her time to pray, to exercise or visit friends.
One final thought. It's easy for men to get busy and lose sight of our wives' needs. Take a moment tonight to discover the way you can most effectively show her sacrificial love.
I'm Dennis Rainey, and that's Real FamilyLife.
Date: 7/29/2009 12:00:00 AM
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