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Choosing Forgiveness:  Your Journey to FreedomChoosing Forgiveness: Your Journey to Freedom By Nancy Leigh DeMoss Nancy Leigh DeMoss explains how forgiving like God is a choice that frees us from the burdens of bitterness, anger, and isolation. If you struggle with long-held hurts, God's truth and Nancy's wisdom hold help and healing for you.

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When It's Hard to Forgive by Nancy Leigh DeMoss As Christians, we can excuse the unforgivable in others because God has excused the unforgivable in us.  More Forgiveness articles

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Love Renewed: Tom and Brenda Preston Guests include: Tom and Brenda Preston Tom Preston, national director for the Executive Ministries of Campus Crusade, and his wife, Brenda, talk openly about their once troubled marriage and the miracle of God's intervention. More Forgiveness broadcasts
FIREPROOF: A Powerful Film About a Crumbling Marriage

Bob Lepine

These days, the average Hollywood produced movie costs more than $100 million to make. Some of those movies set new box office records (think The Dark Knight). Some hemorrhage money (think Speed Racer, if you can remember it. Cost to make—$160 million. Domestic box office receipts—$45 million. That’s a lot of millions lost).

The average movie made in Albany, Ga., costs about $70,000. Since 2003, Sherwood Baptist Church has produced three full length motion pictures: Flywheel, which played in local theaters for eight weeks and has since sold 40,000 DVDs; Facing the Giants, the 2006 film that cost $100,000 to make and earned $10 million in domestic box office receipts, and has gone on to sell more than 1.5 million DVDs; and their latest film, FIREPROOF, which opens in theaters on September 26. FIREPROOF was big budget for the church—it cost $500,000 to make. 

The actors worked for free.

Church members did the catering.

The movie locations were made available at no cost.

And the men who produced, directed, and wrote the film are on the pastoral staff at the church.

While FIREPROOF undoubtedly won’t make as much money at the box office as Speed Racer lost, those who see this powerful story will find themselves moved in a way that Speed Racer—and most big budget movies today—can’t seem to pull off.

FIREPROOF tells the story of Caleb and Catherine Holt, a “dual income, no kids” couple living in the suburbs in Albany. Caleb is the fire chief; Catherine handles public relations for a local hospital. Their seven-year marriage is crumbling, and neither one knows how to rescue it. When Caleb confides to his father that divorce is imminent, his dad challenges him to take the “love dare”—a 40-day experiment that teaches Caleb how to demonstrate sacrificial love for his wife. Caleb takes the dare, but his heart isn’t in it. The question is, will his heart change, and can he turn things around before it’s too late?

Along the way, FIREPROOF takes us into the center of what life looks like in too many marriages. Much to Catherine’s disgust, Caleb looks at pornography on the Internet and dreams about buying a boat. Catherine has lost all respect for her husband and is responding to the kind words and caring gestures of a doctor at the hospital where she works. Caleb and Catherine are two individuals who pass each other in the kitchen and who no longer share a bed—strangers living in the same house.

Stephen and Alex Kendrick, the two brothers who produced and directed the movie, respectively, and who wrote the screenplay together, successfully capture the reality of a marriage that has moved to isolation. Their pastoral experience working with real life couples in marital distress enables them to bring authenticity to the screen. From Caleb and Catherine’s poisonous 50/50 approach to marriage to next door neighbors who can’t help seeing what’s happening, the movie captures—in a way that most movies never do—what is going on in millions of homes.

Kirk Cameron gives a surprising and stunning performance as Caleb Holt. Best known for his role as Mike Seaver on the television show Growing Pains, Cameron skillfully portrays a husband who can lead a team of men to a house fire and can rescue a child trapped inside, but can’t figure out how to rescue his marriage. It’s a performance that redefines and expands what Cameron is capable of as an actor.

Erin Bethea is in her first leading role in a film, playing Caleb’s wife, Catherine. Her acting background includes work as a contract actress for Disney at the Magic Kingdom theme park in Orlando and a small role in Facing the Giants. The rest of the cast (made up of amateur actors and actresses, most of them Sherwood church members) does a commendable job, with a few providing standout performances. Real life Marine Captain Ken Bevel stands out as Michael Simmons, Caleb’s co-worker and confidant.

Let’s be honest. Much of the acting in FIREPROOF has a “community theater” feel to it. Most of these actors are not members of the Screen Actors Guild, and there are places where their lack of experience shows, just as it did in Facing the Giants. Even though the filmmakers have taken a big jump forward with FIREPROOF, there is still at least one scene in the film where the acting is cringingly stiff. 

But FIREPROOF ultimately triumphs (just as Facing the Giants did) because it is a powerful story told well. It presents the gospel in a way that will be panned by mainstream movie critics but that will ring true with viewers. The Kendrick brothers have carefully avoided becoming too heavy handed with the message of the film. It’s clear, but it’s presented in a way that keeps viewers from feeling “preached at.”

FIREPROOF is a compelling, entertaining and inspiring movie. When it hits theaters the last Friday in September, it will find itself competing for an audience with My Best Friend’s Girl, an R-rated romantic comedy that stars Kate Hudson and Dane Cook, and Nights in Rodanthe, a PG-13 movie with Richard Gere and Diane Lane (based on the novel by Nicholas Sparks). You can be certain that the other movies cost a lot more money to make than FIREPROOF. You can also be certain that the movie with the half-million dollar budget made by the church folks in Albany will tell a more powerful, more true-to-life love story than either of the other two. 

Fireproof your marriage this fall with these great tips to help improve your communication and resolve conflict.


Related articles
"Q & A: Respecting Your Husband for the Little Things" by Dennis and Barbara Rainey
"Defeating Isolation in Marriage" by Dennis Rainey
"Emotional Abandonment: When Your Spouse Shuts You Out" by Dr. Dave Currie with Glen Hoos

Related resources
Fireproof, the novel by Stephen and Alex Kendrick and Eric Wilson
The Love Dare by Stephen and Alex Kendrick
Every Man's Battle, abridged audio edition by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker
Anger: Handling a Powerful Emotion in a Healthy Way by Gary Chapman
Fireproof - Ear Reverent podcast by Bob Lepine


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Anonymous @ 1/19/2009 4:02:56 AM 
I am impressed by the comments of the viewers. Would like to watch the movie. Can anyone help me buy a vcd in Chennai,India.Thanks.
Anonymous @ 10/27/2008 10:12:36 AM 
What a phenomenal movie! I took my daughter-in-law this weekend and she said it was perfectly done. It was a heart felt, wonderful true life movie that touched our very souls. This movie will benefit every person, marriage and family. Our church had recommended it. I'm buying the book and the DVD's for my whole family. I'm hoping the book has the 40 day suggestions. The last movie that touched me like this was "The Ultimate Gift". I bought 25 DVD's for my family and friends. Thanks for your suggestion of "Facing the Giants".
Anonymous @ 9/29/2008 12:28:01 PM 
Great movie--just saw it over the weekend!! It's such a blessing that a movie like that made it to the big screen. Since becoming a Christian, I could count on one hand how many times I've been to the theater. If more movies like Fireproof were made, my husband and I would go more often. It's proof that a movie can be funny, action-packed, and moving without all the garbage. Better yet, with God at the center, it can be life-changing! I highly recommend seeing it--try to see it while it's in theaters so we can show Hollywood that these types of movies are what we want to see more of!
Anonymous @ 9/26/2008 6:35:42 AM 
I just checked the length of the movie....2 hrs 2 minutes long. Kirk Cameron was interviewed on Dr. Phil yesterday, talking about this movie. He said you will walk out thinking, "this is me and what I deal with in my marriage, this is what I needed to see". And of course, not all couples will feel this way, but, as a whole.
Anonymous @ 9/23/2008 6:22:49 AM 
Does anyone know the running time of the movie?
Anonymous @ 9/11/2008 8:32:43 PM 
To Anonymous about Illinois: It is being shown in multiple places in Illinois. To find a theatre near you, visit www.fireproofthemovie.com.

I was blessed with the opportunity to see a screening. I want to go again opening weekend and want to buy the DVD as soon as it becomes available!!
Anonymous @ 9/10/2008 3:43:04 PM 
Bob,
Have a heart man. Your criticism of the acting seemed a little harsh.
Anonymous @ 9/8/2008 11:58:19 AM 
Is it being shown in Illinois?
Anonymous @ 9/5/2008 4:38:42 PM 
You gotta see this movie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They could have looked into our marriage years ago and wrote the script off of it. God really touched my heart. Please get your churches involved and take couples who you know are hurting and let them hear the gospel clearly presented and to see how a marriage can be transformed by God's power.
Please see this movie and take some folks with you. David
Anonymous @ 9/5/2008 10:32:53 AM 
I stumbled onto "Facing the Giants" right before it came out and was disappointed that it wasn't showing in the theaters in our area. I pre-bought the DVD (I had NEVER pre-bought a movie I hadn't seen before...Ever!) and it quickly became a family favorite and we told everyone about. We even have two copies so there's always one copy available to loan out. The same with "Flywheel"! And I know it will be the same with "Fireproof" - may even need more than two! You will love this movie!
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