Selfishness
What you're about to hear is one sure-fire way to be … lonely.
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Dennis Rainey: What you're about to hear is one sure-fire way to be … lonely.
Guest: I think of a couple that I know where she complains that he has too much free time by himself and he complains that she wants to do stuff with him, and so they end up just doing their own thing most of the time.[ Read Full Transcript ]
Dennis Rainey: Hmmm. She could be describing any number of couples in our society today. We simply know very little about true self-sacrifice.
I’ve seen the corrosive effects of selfishness in marriage. Men stubbornly ignoring the needs of their wives. They prefer going to the golf course or even spending extra time at the office. I’ve counseled women who spend countless hours shopping, not for their families or for their husbands, but to avoid responsibilities at home.
Over time, independent people become lonely people. Marriage is a gift to lead you away from the misery of selfishness.
One final thought. Why don't you take a moment right now and ask yourself this question, "What can I do to sacrifice my wants and serve my spouse better?"
I'm Dennis Rainey, and that's Real FamilyLife.
Date: 11/5/2007 12:00:00 AM
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