Time Together
Every wife wants her husband to swoop her off her feet and say, “Let’s spend some time together.”
Program: Real FamilyLife
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Dennis Rainey: Every wife wants her husband to swoop her off her feet and say, “Let’s spend some time together.”
Bob Lepine: We asked this woman if she and her husband have less time alone together since they've had children.
Guest: Yeah, we used to go to the movies about once a week, and now it's maybe once every six months. We would force ourselves to get out of the house, just for something to do. And now it's like, "Uhh. We have to go get a baby sitter, let's just stay home."[ Read Full Transcript ]
Dennis Rainey: It is a challenge for a husband and wife to spend time together once they have children. But it's important. My wife, Barbara, and I have established a weekly date night that helps us connect our hearts with one another.
I remember one time when we had a little argument that seemed to hang around for a few days. We went on our weekly date night, and quickly resolved that conflict. All we needed was some time away from the telephone, bills and day to day demands of life in the home.
A couple of times a year, Barbara and I take extended getaways together. We can concentrate on romance and communication.
One final thought. Men, let me challenge you to plan a romantic date for you and your wife. And don't forget to arrange for babysitting. Take initiative to maintain closeness with your wife.
I’m Dennis Rainey, and that’s Real FamilyLife.
The Song of Songs has taught me much, but maybe the most important truth I found there is that a relationship needs time for romance. It takes time for two people to connect and to understand each other. It takes time to enjoy each other’s company and to build mutual trust. Here’s a principle for building your marriage: A husband who wants more romance must practice the three T’s—talk, time, and tenderness.
Date: 9/10/2008 12:00:00 AM
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