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Manner Tips

Mouth Manners Rule # 18

June Hines Moore

Rule:Flattery can be a form of bad mouth manners. Parents should avoid flattering their child.

Reason:Flattery is often an unearned compliment and is perceived as false praise. It comes across as insincere. Example: Praising a child for something he or she had no control over. It just happened.

Application:Be specific. While saying, ?You were a good boy,? is not bad, try saying, ?I noticed that you held your tongue when the little girl yelled at you.? Praise accomplishment, not being.

Copyright 2003, June Hines Moore

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