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List of Conflict Coaches

Each of the following coaches has been trained and certified by the Institute for Christian Conciliation (ICC), part of Peacemaker Ministries. If you would like more information about Peacemakers, you can contact them at P.O. Box 81130, Billings, MT 59108; 406-256-1583; www.peacemaker.net.

If you contact one of the conflict coaches, please let them know that you found the information at FamilyLife.com. 

Alabama
Arkansas
California
Colorado
Florida
Georgia
Illinois
Kansas
Maryland
Michigan
Minnesota
Mississippi
Missouri
Montana
Nevada

New Hampshire
New Mexico
North Carolina
Ohio
Pennsylvania
Tennessee
Texas
Utah
Vermont
Virginia
Wisconsin
Washington

Canada
New Zealand

Alabama
Richard Hastings
1010 E. 51st
Tuscaloosa, AL 35405
(205) 752-6299
Dhastings19@hotmail.com

William Ratliff
454 Botanical Place
Birmingham, AL 35223
(205) 871-2686
wr@wallacejordan.com

Glenn G. Waddell
Birmingham Theological Seminary
2200 Briarwood Way
Birmingham, AL 35243
(205) 776-5280
gwaddell@briarwood.org
www.birminghamseminary.org

Arkansas
David A. Sims, JD PhD
8 Pleasant Court
Little Rock, AR 72211
(501) 442-3585
dsims@bgwservices.com
www.davidasimsjdphd.com

California
Robert Fairman
3945 Stockdale Hwy Ste. 113
Bakersfield, CA 93309
(661) 664-1722
rpfairman@gmail.com

Carl Gans
Attorney at Law
1216 State St Suite 808
Santa Barbara, CA 93101
(805) 963-2011
carl@carlgans.com

Amy Stapp
257 Cerro Gordo Avenue
Cayucos, CA 93430
(805) 995-3941
Amystapp2003@yahoo.com
Candidate for certification by the Institute of Christian Conciliation1

Jackie Vallier
565 Strathaven Ct.
Turlock, CA 95382
(209) 634-4935
jackie@montevistachapel.org

Colorado
Craig Conrad
742 Fulton St
Aurora, CO 80010
(970) 353-0058

KC Dierenfield
8566 W. Arbor Pl
Littleton, CO 80123
Home (303) 972-7675

Candy McCune
Attorney at Law
13791 East Rice Place #117
Aurora, CO 80014
(303) 481-4241
Calls routed through Conciliation Ministries of Colorado - Speak to K.C. to schedule appointment.

Gerry Weitz
2850 Rossmere Street
Colorado Springs, CO 80919
(719) 590-1116
gerry@mail.ssofti.com

Rhonda Wootton
925 Westmoor Place
Colorado Springs, CO 80904
(719) 634-5591
rhonda@rmpmediation.com

Florida
Paul Cornwell
Cornerstone Community Church
4600 Gabriella Lane
Oviedo, FL 32765
(407) 718-8284

Paul Moran
Attorney at Law
46 N Washington Blvd #25A
Sarasota, FL 34236
(941) 955-1717

Michael Simpson
6601 South West Shore Blvd., Apt. #3419
Tampa, FL 35166
(210) 884-0991
rangersimpson@satx.rr.com

Bill White
429 Pou Station Road
Pensacola, FL 32507
(850) 529-6295
liveinpeace.white@gmail.com

Gary Wright
465 Summerhaven Drive, Suite C
DeBary, FL 32713
(386) 668-0163
wrightattorney@cfl.rr.com

Georgia
William Freeman
Freeman Mediation Services
16165 Freemanville Road
Alpharetta, GA 30004
(678) 316-1261
bill@freemanmediation.com

Alexander Phillips
5427 Oliver Court N.W.
Lilburn, GA 30047
(770) 717-5744
alapnsky@bellsouth.net

Illinois
Pennie Helenhouse
617 Rollingwood Dr.
Shorewood, IL 60404
(815) 744-6704
pennie@hhouselaw.com

Peter McClanathan
Remington Ct.
Freeport, IL 61032
(815) 232-6159

Kansas
Jonathan Parnell
2712 W. 27th Terrace
Lawrence, KS 66047
(785) 841-3574
jparnell@sunflower.com

Ronald Rogg
12601 Hauser
Overland Park, KS 66213
(316) 371-9321
benchw1@gmail.com

Maryland
Lynn Pace
PacePeace Conciliation Services
P.O. Box 657
Frederick, MD 21705-0657
(301) 733-3743
Mobile: (828) 773-5343
pacepeace@earthlink.net
www.PacePeace.com

Steve Plaisted
Attorney at Law
113 Billingsgate Lane
Gaithersburg, MD 20877
(301) 762-7877
http://plaistedlaw.com
PlaistedLaw@aol.com

Michigan
Anne Bachle-Fifer
472 Cheshire NE
Grand Rapids, MI 49505
(616) 365-9236

Minnesota
Jeffrey Sprinkel
2636 16th Avenue S.
Minneapolis, MN 55407
jrsprinkel@mchsi.com

Mississippi
Melinda Ladner
371 Dover Lane
Madison, MS 39110
(601) 707-5384
melinda@BlessedUnity.org

Missouri
Tamara Barbosa
4936 Romaine Spring Drive
Fenton, MO 63026
(314) 392-5995, ext. 636
Palmtree210@aol.com

Judy A. Dabler
11469 Olive Blvd., Suite 217
St. Louis, MO 63141
(314) 479-9028
http://www.liveatpeace.org/default.php

Joani Nester
13046 Ferntrails Lane
St. Louis, MO  63141
(314) 323-2885
jnester@LiveatPeace.org

John Richardson
1028 Couch Ave
Kirkwood, MO 63122
(314) 625-6064
Jhnrich40@yahoo.com

 

Montana
Tara Barthel
929 Alderson
Billings, MT 59101
www.tarabarthel.com

ICC - Institute for Christian Conciliation
P.O. Box 81130
Billings, MT 59108
(406) 256-1583

Nevada
Bryan Nelson
623 W Washington St #2
Carson City, NV 89703
(800) 291-8303

New Hampshire
Ruth Brewer
24 Maywood Dr
Nashua, NH 03064
(603) 880-1799

Ted Brewer
New Peace Network
24 Maywood Dr
Nashua, NH 03064
(603) 880-1799

New Mexico
Nevin Nisly
2140 Don Andres SW
Albuquerque, NM 87105
(505) 328-8898
nanisly@juno.com
Candidate for certification by the Institute of Christian Conciliation1

North Carolina
Robert Jones
8624 Neuse Stone Drive
Raleigh, NC 27616
(919) 878-1916
robertdjones@juno.com

Bryce Thomas
515 - 25 Ave NW
Hickory, NC 28601
B. (828) 324-2900
brycethomas@charter.net

Ohio
Phillip E. Dunfee
1407 Morgan Bryan Drive
Newark, OH 43055
(740) 366-3297
pdunfee@alltel.net
 
Pennsylvania
June Appell
657 Pugh Rd.
Wayne, PA 19087
(610) 964-2801
JUAPPE@aol.com

Tennessee
Gregory Davis
2823 Stock Creek Road
Knoxville, TN 37920
(865) 924-4404
davismediation@gmail.com

Richard Pettit
109 Ochs Highway
Chattanooga, TN 37409-1415
(423) 802-3101 

Texas
Oletha Barnett
P.O. Box 3911
Cedar Hill, TX 75106
(469) 387-2627
ojbarnett1@sbcglobal.net

Dana Johnson
Christian Mediation Services, LLC
P.O. Box 1509
Whitehouse, TX 75791
1-888-846-4663
dana@christianmediationservicesllc.com
Candidate for certification by the Institute of Christian Conciliation1

James Johnson
Christian Mediation Services, LLC
P.O. Box 1509
Whitehouse, TX 75791
1-888-846-4663
jim@christianmediationservicesllc.com
Candidate for certification by the Institute of Christian Conciliation1

Kevin Thornsberry
7823 Villa Lake Drive
Houston, TX 77095
713-826-0687
fixconflict@oplink.net


Utah
Debby Mylar
3310 East Alta Hills Drive
Sandy, UT 84093
(801) 943-1213
fdmylar@msn.com

Vermont
Andrew H. Selle
P.O. Box 63
Essex Jct., VT 05453
(802) 879-1103
Christiancounseling@earthlink.net

Virginia
Larry Julian
1416 Pocoshock Blvd
Richmond, VA 23235
(804) 745-8266

Ron Zabel
Conflict Resolution & Conciliation Services
10521 Judicial Dr Suite 207
Fairfax, VA 22030
(703) 385-9877
inquire@conflicttopeace.org
www.ConflictToPeace.org

Washington
Beverly Forrest
3524 Gravelly Beach Loop NW
Olympia, WA 98502
(360) 866-2655
mammers3@comcast.net

Bruce Nelson
Rock Pointe Tower, Ste 675
W. 316 Boone Ave
Spokane, WA 99201
(509) 325-2520
BMNelson675@aol.com

Sally Jo Sund
P.O. Box 2020
Hoodsport, WA 98548
(360) 877-6299
sund747@aol.com

Wisconsin
Michael Grabrian
620 Charlotte St.
Hammond, WI 54015
(715) 497-3259
fntnlife@yahoo.com
Candidate for certification by the Institute of Christian Conciliation1


 

Canada
Deborah Doyle
286 Mississippi Drive
Arnprior R1, Ontario K7S 3G7
CANADA
(613) 237-5555
dd@doylegroup.ca

Ruth Robertson
Box 203
Braeside, Ontario K0A 1G0
CANADA
(613) 623-6030
ruth58robertson@aol.com

New Zealand
Peter Reynolds
74 Sheriff Place, Manurewa
Auckland 2105
New Zealand
011-64-9-266-0562
reyno@hotmail.com 

1Candidates for certification have completed all training required by the Institute for Christian Conciliation, Peacemakers Ministries, and are under the supervision of a certified conciliator. They are considered competent to act as conflict coaches or mediators in marital conflict.