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At what point does your phone become a technology addiction? If your spouse has recently said, “Get off your phone!” here are some tips.

So what does the Bible say about racism? A lot (from Genesis all the way to Revelation). The question is, will we listen?

When it comes to talks about racial discrimination, mercy and grace are needed on all sides. But the most effective change happens face-to-face.

I'm encouraged by the support and solidarity I have witnessed from my Christian friends. Thank you for your expressions of heartbreak. But don't stop there.

Silence does not communicate FamilyLife’s long-standing vision of “every home a godly home.” We’re all learning how to engage in a way that communicates trust, community, and Christ’s love to all families, all homes.

Like many, I’m savoring the (albeit slow) exhale of life after quarantine. But there are also some rich gifts from the past few months that I don’t want to lose.

I weep in response to the hashtags I see. George Floyd’s life mattered. But how do we talk to our kids about another black man's death ... again?

As states reopen and life attempts to go back to normal, I’m reevaluating my family’s needs. But what I’m finding isn’t necessarily a beach vacation.

Does the idea of states reopening make you rejoice? Or cause you worry? Whichever side you are on, here are a few ways we can all pray.

Ahmaud Arbery's death isn't just about politics. It's a chance to teach our kids to think and act with Christian minds in areas we’d rather avoid.

What started out like a nice extended weekend has mutated into a family siege. After the initial quarantine shock though, many have found the best of times.

We need some clear, concrete directions about how to operate in the era of a global pandemic and deal with anxiety about the consequences of quarantine.

Sometimes bad circumstances bring about future good. And for many families, their lives have been changed for the better by the quarantine.

Maintaining friendships when you can't be together isn't easy. Now, thanks to a pandemic and nationwide shutdown, all our friendships feel long distance.

As the coronavirus claims lives, we wonder how to grieve from a distance. Usually we find comfort in community. What do you do when you face death alone?

Being shut-in during the pandemic only intensifies the anxiety we feel. Here are a few tips on how to reduce stress while you’re stuck at home.

Since the coronavirus quarantine hijacked our lives, I feel frazzled. It's hard to focus on anything when everything is on me in this new normal.

My husband supporting me through my mental health wasn’t in our plans when we got married, but it was in our wedding vows. 

As I sit at the beginning of another week, grieving the quarantine, it’s clear: we don’t like feeling out of control. This new normal comes with loss.

The threat of COVID-19 has forced us to face the fear of death. It has become real: human life is fragile. But you can control the fear.

This time of being quarantined is challenging! One surprising aspect might be how hard it is to adjust to being together 24/7.

With more COVID-19 closures, families are gathering at home and around the table again. If it’s been awhile, here's insight on making family dinners work.

Families and communities go through a long process to put pieces back together after a natural disaster. We can play a vital part of the recovery effort.

When he recommended abortion, I finally understood. That choice is for when the fear is suffocating. Sometimes scared moms want an easier way.

Leaving heaven and coming to earth was part of God’s plan for Jesus—and all of humanity—all along.

Having fantasy arguments in your head or Facebook fights with toxic people? It's tiring! But defending your reputation might not be worth your time.

Your spouse might find openness struggling with depression. But mental health issues don’t just impact the lives of those who have them.

"Even good moms have scary thoughts sometimes," my husband reassured. I didn’t want to admit it. But I knew deep inside I was facing postpartum depression.

"I think the bottom line is that God just doesn’t like women," my friend shared her frustration. But is that the truth about us?

John MacArthur told Beth Moore to “Go home." Male and female opinions on both sides erupted. But there’s a bigger offense at play that no one is outing.

I know my kids’ emotions are complex. I'm learning that rather than the disease, those emotions are symptoms. So I'm seeking understanding and solutions.

I am the dreaded Enneagram 8—the challenger. Self-confident, decisive, willful, and confrontational. But I also stand for what is right in an unmoving way.

It’s easy for Astros fans to love José Altuve's series clenching 2 run walk-off sending Houston to the World Series. But we all cheer his poise and class.

Casual sex boasts the benefits of being a modern woman: freedom, confidence, independence. But how is hooking up good for girls if 83% prefer commitment?

What is it about Rachel Hollis that makes her so appealing to hundreds and thousands of women? I get why she satisfies and why she doesn't.

People say talking about depression will make it better. Jarrid Wilson‘s suicide shows you can talk about it and not be okay.

An Enneagram 3 to the core, I know I can change the world. Feeding hungry children, slashing divorce rates, and housing homeless: bring it on!

Disagreement usually sparks hatred. But when did disagreeing equate hating?  We, as a whole, have forgotten how to respectfully disagree.

In the wake of tragic events, it’s tempting to feel hopeless or point fingers at others. Here are some practical ways I can respond now.

Whether or not Ed Sheeran recognizes it, his lyrics communicate the truth that the things of this world will never satisfy.

Society tells women they are not naturally beautiful. But what does God say?

The ad is surfacing yet again, as Gillette attempts to explain billion-dollar losses this quarter. The public wonders if we need more or less masculinity.

"Close-minded. Unaccepting. Judgmental." Many in our society label Christians as the most hateful people of all in a world fighting for love to win.

A catchy new song by Miley reveals a view on love that may not last a lifetime.

A millennial’s perspective on Joshua Harris's “falling away” from the Christian faith: "I am among the generation that was shaped, both good and bad."

Women who have never married or had children are the happiest and healthiest, I heard. I'm an unmarried woman with no children. Does single equal happy?

Even the mighty fall. To some, Josh Harris was mighty. He had great influence on their spiritual formation. I hope and pray they know that the Almighty still stands.

Video games offer a world for your kids where they are the ones with power. The lure is easy to see. But clearly gaming can’t satisfy these deep desires.

We just want our kids to win at sports! But often in the process, we ruin their fun and train them to despise our approach to life and worldview.  

Besides her obvious talent on the tennis court, Coco demonstrated what it looks like when parents teach that there’s more going on than just the game.

Eight months into their marriage, Gwyneth Paltrow and Brad Falchuk live in separate houses much of the time. Friends say it's ideal. But what's up?

As the dad of a 13-year-old girl, when Teen Vogue moves from popping pimples to pushing pimps, I need to raise my hand and say, "I’m not for this.”

Most men would swim through shark-infested waters rather than admit our failures and weaknesses.

Tickets to JoJo Siwa's sold out D.R.E.A.M. tour is all my eleven-year-old daughter wanted for her birthday. I was determined to find a way to take her.

What happens when society redefines family?  Our teenagers are sorting through the wounds of a generation’s idea that family is whatever you want it to be.

High school wrestler Brendan Johnston explained, “I’m not really comfortable wrestling a girl." Is this a sign of his narrow-mindedness and ego? Or respect?

Does anybody notice me? Am I pretty enough? Good enough? Ayesha Curry's open interview voiced concerns that most women aren't brave enough to express.

“Trust your heart. Believe in you." Yet with the constant encouragement to pat ourselves on the back, the result isn’t all sunshine and cupcakes.

It's sobering hearing that your body will never carry a child. That because of infertility you’ll never know the kicks of a baby growing inside you.

This will be J. Lo's fourth and A-Rod's second marriage. What makes them think that this one will be the one that sticks? (We hope it does.)

Does it really matter if preachers wear hip clothes or live expensive lifestyles?

Tiger Woods’ emotional grip on his son culminated a journey back from the sports-dead. We see a man experience professional victory and personal redemption.

For parents who have lost a child, nothing will ever be able to replace that baby. But sometimes out of sorrow is the gift of a “rainbow baby," the healthy baby who follows loss.

Despite their decision to divorce, both of my parents made sacrifices along the way that kept my brother and me as their priorities.

The pop music star is about to turn 30, and her list of life lessons beautifully blends heart with humor, plus practicality and purpose.

What’s a level-headed but vigilant parent to do with this information? Here are five ways to respond to the unsettling Momo Challenge.

Your sons have already heard about the owner of the New England Patriots charged with solicitation of prostitution. What will they hear from you?

Toxic masculinity, the new term in vogue powering today’s cultural discussion, is concerning. The answer certainly cannot be vilifying masculinity.

At first I found the KonMari tidying method to be humorous. But my husband says it’s attractive to him when I clean and organize our home.

The Gillette ad is just the latest in a series of negative narratives featuring men.

My limited experience has taught me to be vigilant in what I allow before my children’s eyes.

Political leaders might have their own agendas, but those cannot thwart God’s.

The award-winning artist's music inspired others to bask in God’s love, but he had to overcome shame and alcoholism to hear God’s love song to him.

The popular television show tells us there is romance and redemption lying wait in our days, breathless not with passion, but with the hard work of love.

I saw a hashtag on Twitter this week about why people who have been sexually abused might choose not to report it.

A few positive lessons from my guilty pleasure over the last few months.

NBA star Blake Griffin may be able to afford a huge child support payment, but kids need more than that.

Donna Reish wanted to make her father's seventieth birthday extra special.

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Whatever problems may develop, my commitment is to do whatever it takes to help my parents, respect them, and honor them.

Brava, Miss America, for eliminating a bit of the external from the ideal. And let’s not stop there. What does it look like for each of us to disregard the bigger “swimsuit competition” far deeper within?

FamilyLife’s first feature film, Like Arrows, is coming to a theater near you, but this week only!

FamilyLife's first film is meant to be a glimpse into a path that can take you deeper into parenting the heart of your children.

Bob Lepine answers behind-the-scenes questions about the movie.

Everyone has a family. And every family has a story.

As a stepgrandparent, you can be an important and influential role in the family with a little grace and wisdom.

Over 25 years of marriage have taught my husband and me how to adjust to each other’s families.

Taking care of our elderly parents is a journey into the character of Christ.

How six adult children honored the single mother who raised them.

Rick and Judy Taylor talk about recovering from the death of their son, Kyle.

Ten ways for families to stay spiritually strong in today’s culture.

Many parents today feel overwhelmed by the pace at which technology is changing the American home.

When it’s necessary to confront and correct someone, do it in a way that puts a priority on the relationship.

In a divisive political season, here are thoughts on what it means to "render to Caesar what is Caesar's, and to God what is God's."

Too often what we see on social media, at a party, or even on Sunday at church in no way reflects what's really going on in someone's life.

We live in an age when the role of grandparents isn’t clearly defined.

It’s hard not to have control, and one thing that we can’t ever determine is what lies ahead.

Your grandchildren need you. Do not abandon them.

Don’t let fear cause you to mistreat those who are different from you.

We all need to live lives of constant repentance, recognizing that the entire Christian life is one of constant temptation to sin and simultaneous call to obey Christ.

The gospel liberates us from the mindset that sex is intrinsic to human fulfillment.

We need to be grandparents who focus on what matters, on what lasts.

As a grandparent, do you realize you are second only to the parents in your potential to impact your grandchildren spiritually?

At the Atlanta Mission, men are learning from the Stepping Up video series that the first step to transformation is a willingness to change.

The same faith that led Alvin York to be a pacifist also led him to become the most decorated soldier in World War I and a post-war philanthropist.

Here are some practical things you can do to guard your children.

Something has shifted in our culture the last few months as hidden sexual sins—especially in the workplace—are brought into the light. Why has this happened so suddenly?

In the wake of the current outcry against sexual mistreatment of women, what reception will the film Fifty Shades Freed receive?

My counseling experience leads me to conclude that evil is very much at work in the world, in our mind, and in our body.

Events in Charlottesville remind us that ultimately the solution to racism comes when hearts are transformed.

Three truths to remember when incomprehensible tragedies occur.

It's up to this generation of Christians to reverse course, and it starts at home.

Cynics are ‘prayer shaming’ Christians after shootings or disasters. But are there times when we use that phrase as little more than a platitude?

Looking for signs that something is amiss … and helping your child heal.

Your kids deserve your whole-hearted attention.

My addiction was a vicious cycle. I’d sin, feel guilty, repent, feel better. How could I break free?

The "crisis in the American family" isn't downstream from Woodstock or the Pill, but downstream from the wreckage of Eden.

In this wireless, tech world, parents need to be proactive in connecting with their teens through real conversation.

Well-written books can reinforce the values and morals you want to impart to your children. They can help you parent well.

The proliferation of internet stars should cause us to question their focus—and ours.

This movie about the power of prayer may be unlike anything else you’ve seen.

How will your grandchildren remember you?

To return our nation to its feet, we must first return to our knees.

If wellness requires us to complete a marathon at 100 years old, most of us won’t make it.

We live in a culture that is steadily moving away from God’s truth. Our families are in serious trouble and need help now.

Some suggest that Christians talk too much about something the Bible hardly addresses. But the Scriptures are clear and consistent on this issue.

Are you ready to answer the tough questions your friends are asking you about your beliefs?

The irony of this film is that it leaves out Louie Zamperini’s experiences after World War II—when he became a broken man.

While your kids may know more than you about technology, they need your wisdom and guidance.

A college student examines the impact of the shows today’s youth are watching on YouTube.

We need your help to spread the new film's message about godly parenting.

No matter how tech savvy you are as a parent, your kids will always know more. Here are some ideas on how to engage with them.

The movie centers on the joys and trials of parenting and the power of family to shape the next generation.

When a man lives up to his role, life-giving things start to happen.

Two questions that will help you discern if the 'Fifty Shades' book and film presents a treacherous deception.

Are you devoting enough time to deepening your relationship with your spouse offline?

My husband was working more hours than he or I wanted … and I was turning into a shrew.

Chick-fil-A’s founder was a true patriarch for Jesus Christ.

As grandparents, we’ve been given a wonderful opportunity to influence our grandchildren.

On July 4, 1776, 56 men stepped up to pass a resolution that would cost many of them greatly in the years to come.

Hardly a day goes by when I don't think of my mother and my mother-in-law and the influence they had on my life.

After the recent tornado in central Arkansas, this is a time of extreme emotions here at FamilyLife.

Thirty years after his mother's death, Rob Smith found an unusual way to honor her.

The key to powerful manhood is taking responsibility for the field assigned to you.

When I hear stories like this, I realize that the commandment to honor our parents is far more important, and far more powerful, than most of us realize.

I know the power of community and I know the emotions of walking this journey alone.

Even if turning your television off completely is an unbearable thought, consider these ideas for replacing a portion of your television-watching time.

Three essentials to sharing the kind of covenant love that Ruth and Naomi had.

That Jesus was committed to heterosexual marriage could not be more evident. He was just as committed to the permanence and fidelity of marriage.

Response to a special edition of FamilyLife Today on the topic of the Supreme Court’s decisions regarding same-sex marriage.

A clear understanding of God's purposes for marriage helps us understand what's at stake if our culture redefines what He originally created.

The story of Mary of Nazareth illustrates that true identity is not found in a job, a spouse, a child, a position, or a possession.

Here’s a list of holiday CDs with songs that focus on Christ’s birth.

Are you successful? Take a moment and reflect on the question. What is your answer?

A guide to help you make your eating habits more pleasing to God.

Our culture today has influenced many women to see themselves solely in the context of how they look.

Here are seven propositions that I believe should shape how Christians think about and respond to homosexuality.

What happens when we don't follow God's design for sex? Broken sex.

Something good that God has placed within every male remains unreleased in most men.

If we know anything about God, we know that He comes close to those who suffer, so keep your eyes open for Him.

You can devise all kinds of ways to try to get rid of your guilty feelings. But your guilt is not just a feeling or a personal problem.

Bringing up the memories is the first step in fighting the battle.

A recovering sexual addict answers questions common to the wives of men who struggle with the same sin.

I am not perfect. Let's both assume that the other is doing the best she can.

Have you honored your parents for what they've done well?

Good mamas want their kids to have good marriages.

An English professor and committed lesbian, Dr. Rosaria Champagne was intrigued by a local pastor who invited her to dinner.

We live in a culture that is moving farther and farther away from the clear teaching of Scripture about God's purpose and design for human sexuality.

Modern women face tremendous challenges, and we need the same wisdom the book of Proverbs offered to ancient women.

Jesus wants you to discover in Him what will truly satisfy your soul.

An interview with Josh McDowell about his life and his difficult childhood years.

Consider how you can honor your parents with more than just a store-bought card or gift.

It really is possible to have a personal, consistent relationship with God by making these three practices a priority.

Let’s call men to being relationship investors—guys who protect the weak, bring out the best in others, and love unconditionally.

It seemed my folks were always helping someone.

The best thing you can do for yourself, for your children, and for our culture is to make your marriage work—and encourage others to do the same.

How do you find an "older woman" to encourage you?

The film and television industry promotes the same views—over and over again.

We need men who will say "no" to more bucks when it means sacrificing our families. A new breed who will ask the question, "How will this affect my family?"

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Tribute to my parents

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Tribute to Art and June Lindstrom, written by their daughter, Janet Logan.

Tribute to Alan Nagel from his son, Todd.

An opportunity for you and your children to better understand the workings of the mass media of entertainment together.

Parents can keep their children safe from video game addiction by avoiding these five common mistakes.

God’s call to men can be boiled down to two basic directives.

At a recent speaking engagement, I received a lesson far more profound than the one I was giving.

On the 70th anniversary of D-Day, "FamilyLife Today" co-host recalls his father's service and sacrifice in World War II.

When I think of Dalcie Rainey, I hear her contagious laughter and smell cheeseburgers sizzling in the kitchen.

As much as we enjoy the Internet, it’s time for many of us to realize how easily this relatively new medium can consume us.

I think we would be shocked if we could count the number of times we are tempted each day.

The process of forgiving my dad wasn't easy, but our relationship is now a trophy of grace and reconciliation.

How a sacrificial "anniversary gift" revolutionized one home.

As grandparents we don't just have to sit around hoping that our grandchildren will receive a spiritual inheritance.

How to help your child make wise media entertainment choices.

Three core convictions related to the trap of pornography that every parent should hold.

Manhood requires us to put the lure of adolescence behind us, face upward, and step up.

Selected readings from children ages 6 to 19.

Some of the best memories of a marriage are made when your children are born.

Three practical steps on how to let go.

God handed this mother's little boy the key to set her free.

Lisa Beamer's witness after 9/11 exemplifies what it means to be salt of the earth.

I’m glad that the folks at Pixar have their priorities clear.

Abusive behavior was never and can never be a part of God's plan for a marriage or a family.

These five steps will help you break free.

My addiction to pornography cost me my marriage.

It's not easy to honor someone who has hurt you so deeply. The natural tendency is to repay evil for evil and seek retribution.

As a Christian family, we should help our aging parents finish life well--as a lasting testimony to us, to our children, and to anyone who might be watching.

Marriage can reveal the damage of the past, but these biblical steps can help you change your heart and forgive your parents.

The thing that sets 'Up' apart from its earlier predecessors are the tender moments that come out of the marriage relationship between the main character and his wife.

What types of music will you allow your children to listen to?

Many adults today need to come to grips with their sexual past.

Our constant consumption of television, movies, internet, cell phones, etc., affects us in more ways than we realize.

Promoting face-to-face communication in your marriage and family.

If you have a difficult relationship with an adult brother or sister, you are not alone.

Dennis Rainey and co-host Bob Lepine interviewed Byron Yawn about his new book What Every Man Wishes His Father Had Told Him.

Readers sound off on how mobile technology is affecting their relationships.

A behind-the-scenes glimpse into our mailbag.

Here are some basic principles for anyone who wants to understand Asperger Syndrome from a biblical perspective.

Mania can’t keep you from the most important task of human life: becoming more and more like your Heavenly Father.

To understand your struggles with OCD you need to take into account both components.

Our culture abounds with hollow and deceptive theories of change that masquerade as biblical wisdom.

The new movie from the creators of Fireproof is a powerful story of renewal and recommitment.

Technology is changing so quickly that most of us are barely aware of how our behavior is changing.

No matter how unexpected or predictable, death shakes us to the core. The pain is inescapable.

How do you come to terms with the suicide of someone you know and love?

When facing midlife issues, it's time to ask, "What is God doing in my life?"

Every time you remember, every time you struggle, every time you feel that your heart is breaking under the weight of what happened to you, ask Him to help you.

God offers you true, living hope--not a false hope based on your death.

God’s ears are finely tuned to tears. Like a mother who wakes at the sound of her child, God hears the cries of the oppressed.

God is doing His transforming work in the person you are caring for and He also transforms.

Extreme fatigue strips life down to the bare basics of human need and God’s grace.

If you don't learn how to handle anger, you will constantly hurt others.

No matter what issue you are facing, you can have a clear sense of where change is needed in your life and what that change should look like.

How does the gospel bring real and lasting change into people's lives? A Q&A with Paul David Tripp and Tim Lane.

God's Word is filled with many good, useful, and true things that are meant to help you in your struggle with worry and fear.

Instilling a love for reading is a gift that keeps giving.

Care for the environment takes our commitment to a godly legacy to a new level of responsibility and conscientiousness.

Dr. Howard Hendricks had a tremendous worldwide influence during a lifetime of serving Christ.

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When your allegiance is to something other than God, you will simultaneously feel both in control and out of control.

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A report on how the film is changing lives with its challenge to apply biblical principles of love to your marriage.

The Kendricks brothers' pastoral experience working with real-life couples in marital distress enables them to bring authenticity to the screen. 

Many couples start off wrong and are then burdened with poor in-law relationships for years. It will take faith to develop positive in-law relationships.

Make a commitment to help your spouse honor his or her parents.

We learned how to talk about my sexual addiction at a Weekend to Remember®.

A man’s decision about pornography is a decision about his soul, his marriage, and his wife.

Through his Playboy empire he said it’s okay to indulge sexual sin.

Start by teaching your children to embrace these personal convictions.

Over time, God began to reveal why I was choosing work over my family.

You must know what ladder you are on and where it is leading.

We need convictions and a personal, proactive plan for handling media wisely.

A big shift may be occurring in the way we gather and process information, but we must summon the discipline to slow down enough to focus on what’s important.

How can you master technology rather than letting it master you?

A man's last words reflect the life that he lived. What will yours be?

The legacy of a 16-year-old girl in New Zealand who lived for God.

My granddaughter's life may have been short in terms of days, but her life was mighty.

As this tiny baby's short life drew to a close, we heard God's voice in our time of grief.

How to help friends or family when they lose a child.

My husband's depression left both of us feeling helpless and out of control.

Suffering nags us with questions about God in a way that comfort never could.

As a mom it's easy to feel useless, isolated, boxed in or imprisoned at home.

Observations from my 100th Weekend to Remember marriage getaway.

Our nation suffers from a sickness in its soul.

Unfortunately, many parents deny symptoms of drug or alcohol abuse or simply look the other way.

It is never too late to be a positive influence in the life of your child.

Substance abuse is frighteningly widespread among our nation's youth.

How FamilyLife Today helped reprogram my wrong views of family.

A key to experiencing freedom and joy is to replace lies with the truth of God's Word.

Our unleashed words can be every bit as damaging and destructive as any other kind of aggressive outburst.

Women often end up in bondage to a lie they believe about themselves.

The best thing you can do for yourself, for your children, and for our culture is to make your marriage work—and encourage others to do the same.

Kids may be resilient, but divorce does serious damage to them.

Having in-laws is not always the easiest part of marriage, but it’s one of the best and most unexpected blessings.

Six suggestions that will help you nurture these delicate relationships.

Like soldiers, we are called to do our duty even when the storms of life tempt us to abandon our posts.

A real man knows where he is going.

My father showed me that being a man involves taking responsibility for your choices, for your family, for your community, and for the next generation.

What it means for a man to be the spiritual protector of his family.

The story of an imperfect family, and how God stepped in to bring healing, forgiveness, and honor.