Love Like You Mean It Partner Assessment

1. I tend to remind my spouse or partner of their responsibilities a lot.

2. Waiting for a reply from my spouse or partner is difficult.

3. In conversation, I struggle to pay attention to topics I’m not interested in.

4. When I help my spouse or partner with something I don’t expect them to return the favor.

5. Oftentimes, I will anticipate the needs of my spouse or partner and meet them without prompting.

6. When my spouse or partner makes mistakes, I think it could happen to anybody; including me.

7. When my spouse or partner proves I’m wrong, it’s difficult to accept it.

8. Certain tasks are beneath me.

9. I know my strengths and weaknesses well.

10. Oftentimes, I give in to my spouse or partner’s preferences for small decisions.

11. When I have margin in my schedule, I let my spouse or partner know in case they need anything.

12. I make sacrifices for my spouse or partner.

13. I try to be calm and understanding with people who offend me.

14. When I’m proven right, I’m likely to say “I told you so” to my spouse or partner.

15. My spouse or partner would say I don’t use their mistakes as an excuse to be angry.

16. Sometimes, I find it difficult to know the right thing to do.

17. There is no such thing as absolute right or absolute wrong.

18. Most of the time I choose to do what feels right to me.

19. There have been moments in my relationship where my spouse or partner lost trust in me.

20. Depending on the situation, it’s okay to lie.

21. When I’ve done something hurtful or wrong, I try to make it known to my spouse or partner.

22. I have difficulty maintaining enthusiasm in my relationship.

23. When I face trials, I find it easy to to stay motivated.

24. I like to work out relationship problems with my spouse or partner.

25. When changes occur, I find it difficult to adapt.

26. When I’m feeling sad, afraid, or angry I find healthy ways to express those feelings.

27. I believe I can achieve my goals, even if there are obstacles.

28. Please indicate the degree of happiness, all things considered, of your relationship.

29. I have a warm and comfortable relationship with my spouse or partner.

30. How rewarding is your relationship with your partner?

31. In general, how satisfied are you with your relationship?

32. My belief in God gives my life meaning.

33. I have a close relationship with God.