Session 4: As Long as We Both Shall Live: The Essential Elements for a Marriage That Goes the Distance

Session 4: As Long as We Both Shall Live: The Essential Elements for a Marriage That Goes the Distance

Welcome to Session 4 of this four-part training series on strengthening your marriage. Play the video below to continue.

Major Points

  • Finish strong in your marriage—not just for our kids, but for the gospel of Christ.
  • God designed the family to be the birthplace and the nursery of Christianity.
  • 3 ways to be courageous in your marriage
    • Fulfill your wedding vows
    • Protect your marriage from temptations
    • Persevere through seasons of suffering
  • Courageous forgiveness is key.
  • How you handle conflict is important, generationally.
  • You’re on a courageous mission.
  • Your marriage is like a three-legged race.

Memory Verses

Discussion Questions

  1. Dennis Rainey’s favorite question to ask others is, “What is the most courageous thing you have ever done?” Share the most courageous thing you have ever done in your marriage.
  2. Dennis Rainey challenged us to engage in a courageous mission. What mission are you on, and why? If you do not feel you are on a mission, Dennis suggested that your mission may be in what you are passionate about. What are you passionate about? How might God use your passion to help others?
  3. Share what the I Still Do experience has meant to you. How is God using it to transform your marriage?
  4. Couples who consistently build into their marriage thrive despite their circumstances. The following are four actions you might consider as a next step for your marriage. When you and your spouse are alone, discuss what your next step will be:
    • a weekend getaway marriage conference
    • a small-group marriage study with friends
    • biblical counseling
    • helping others with their marriage

Session 4 Quiz