Love Like You Mean It Assessment

I tend to remind my spouse or partner of their responsibilities a lot.*
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Waiting for a reply from my spouse or partner is difficult.*
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In conversation, I struggle to pay attention to topics I'm not interested in.*
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Patience Score
When I help my spouse or partner with something I don't expect them to return the favor.*
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Oftentimes, I will anticipate the needs of my spouse or partner and meet them without asking.*
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When my spouse or partner makes mistakes, I think it could happen to anybody; including me.*
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Kindness Score
When my spouse or partner proves I'm wrong, it's difficult to accept it.*
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Certain tasks are beneath me.*
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I know my strengths and weaknesses well.*
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Humility Score

Oftentimes, I give in to my spouse or partner's preferences for small decisions.*
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When I have margin in my schedule, I let my spouse or partner know in case they need anything.*
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I make sacrifices for my spouse or partner.*
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Generosity Score
I'm able to be calm and understanding with people who offend me.*
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When I'm proven right, I'm likely to say "I told you so" to my spouse or partner.*
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My spouse or partner would say I don't use their mistakes as an excuse to be angry.*
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Gentleness Score
Sometimes, I find it difficult to know the right thing to do.*
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There is no such thing as absolute right or absolute wrong.*
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Most of the time I choose to do what feels right to me.*
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Virtuosity Score

There have been moments in my relationship where my spouse or partner lost trust in me.*
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Depending on the situation, it's okay to lie.*
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When I've done something wrong or hurtful, I make it known to my spouse or partner.*
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Honesty Score
I have difficulty maintaining enthusiasm in my relationship.*
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When I face trials, I find it easy to stay motivated.*
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I like to work out relationship problems with my spouse or partner.*
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Tenacity Score
When changes occur, I find it difficult to adapt.*
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When I'm feeling sad, afraid, or angry I find healthy ways to express those feelings.*
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I believe I can achieve my goals, even if there are obstacles.*
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Resiliency Score

I have a warm and comfortable relationship with my spouse or partner.*
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Overall, I'm satisfied with my relationship.*
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My belief in God gives my life meaning.*
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I have a close relationship with God.*
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