What are the main areas that initially drew you to your spouse?
How are you and your spouse different?
Tell me about your marriage so far. What’s your experience been like? What surprises have you encountered?
What role models did the two of you have for marriage growing up? How are those models similar? How are they different?
What would you like to imitate from your parents’ marriage? What would you like to do differently?
What's one small step you'd like to see taken in your marraige and how can I help encourage you in that?
The Bible says a couple "leaves and cleaves" to start the new marriage. How have you been able to do that?
Can you tell me about your relationships with both sets of in-laws? Are there any area specific areas of concern so far?
Do you understand the essential roles of husbands and wives in marriage according to the Bible? Can we discuss that?
Are there any specific areas of conflict that have arisen? How are the two of you handling those things together?
What can you tell me about the financial area of your marriage? Do the two of you have a plan for the future? Do you have a monthly budget that will help you reach your goals?
Have the two of you discussed children? Are you on the same page or is that an area you're still working through?
What surprising discoveries have you made so far?
Have you learned things about yourself that may have been a little uncomfortable to realize? What are those?
