• How comfortable are you praying with your spouse?
  • If you wanted to start praying together, how do you think your spouse would respond?
  • What model did your parents set for you?  Did they pray together regularly?
  • How important has your prayer life been to you personally?
  • In what ways have you seen God answer your prayers and drawn you closer to Himself in the past?  Have you shared those with your spouse?
  • How do you think God uses prayer to draw a couple closer together in their relationship with one another?
  • What things in your life take up time and prevent you from praying together regularly?
  • What is one small step you can take in the right direction today?
  • How is prayer a priority in your life personally?  In your marriage relationship?
  • What, if anything, keeps you from feeling comfortable praying with your spouse?
  • Are you waiting for your spouse to initiate prayer?  If so, why?
  • Growing up what role models did you have for praying together as a couple?  If none, are you open to resources that could help fill that void?
  • Do you view your mate as the enemy or as God’s gift to you?  Practically speaking, what does that look like in your home?
  • If God's plan is to change you by drawing you into prayer with your spouse, how will you respond to that?
  • Have you ever discovered the power of perseverance in prayer?
  • How can you help your spouse realize who he or she is in Christ?
  • How have the two of you resolved past hurts?  Have there been times where those have inhibited your prayer life together?
  • Do you believe that God can transform you through the power of His Holy Spirit? (Ephesians 3:20-21)
  • What is one step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you do that?