“What would you expect to happen between you if you both this moment appeared before God, with the Holy Spirit holding hands with each of you, as it were? Wouldn’t you be forced to reconciliation in the presence of the King of peace? That is in effect what happens every day when two believers pray … Jesus told His disciples, ‘If therefore you are presenting your offering at the altar, and there remember that your brother [or sister] has something against you, leave your offering there before the altar, and go on your way; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and present your offering’ (Matthew 5:23‐24). These words apply also to your ex.”