Can we take a look at how God’s word defines sexual purity?
Are you comfortable discussing this area and seeking perspective from God’s word together?
Are you aware of the process of confession, repentance, and forgiveness?
Do you believe that God can forgive you of your sins?
Do you believe that God still desires a relationship with you in spite of your ongoing struggle with sin?
How has past sexual sin affected your marriage? Have you and your spouse ever discussed this together?
Have you confessed your sin to God, but still remain plagued by ongoing guilt over the past?
I believe the most important relationship a person has in life is the one they have with Jesus Christ. Can you tell me a little about what that means to you?
How can I as your mentor help encourage you right now?
Have you spoken with your pastor or a Christian counselor?
Have you repented and “turned away from” your sin?
Are you keeping secrets about your past from your spouse? If not, how did your spouse react when told them about your past?
What would forgiveness from your spouse look like?
Do you believe Christ’s sacrifice is enough for you? (1 John 2:2)
Are you setting appropriate boundaries in your life to avoid this in the future?
Do you have an ongoing relationship with Jesus Christ on a daily basis and do you understand how important this is to true freedom from guilt?
If you are a Christian, have you asked God to lift this burden? (Matthew 11:28-30)
Are you willing to let God rebuild your life now according to His plan?
Do you have past or current behaviors that make you feel guilty or embarrassed? Can we talk about how God wants you to get a fresh start in those areas and has provided a way to do that?
Do you know how to have God’s power for victory in this area?
Have you taken time to prayerfully consider how sexual impurity has affected your marriage relationship?
What might be one small step you could take today to move in the right direction and experience God’s power and joy?
