• How would you define sexual purity?
  • Can we take a look at how God’s word defines sexual purity?
  • Are you comfortable discussing this area and seeking perspective from God’s word together?
  • Are you aware of the process of confession, repentance, and forgiveness?
  • Do you believe that God can forgive you of your sins?
  • Do you believe that God still desires a relationship with you in spite of your ongoing struggle with sin?
  • How has past sexual sin affected your marriage? Have you and your spouse ever discussed this together?
  • Have you confessed your sin to God, but still remain plagued by ongoing guilt over the past?
  • I believe the most important relationship a person has in life is the one they have with Jesus Christ. Can you tell me a little about what that means to you?
  • How can I as your mentor help encourage you right now?
  • Have you spoken with your pastor or a Christian counselor?
  • Have you repented and “turned away from” your sin?
  • Are you keeping secrets about your past from your spouse?  If not, how did your spouse react when told them about your past?
  • What would forgiveness from your spouse look like?
  • Do you believe Christ’s sacrifice is enough for you? (1 John 2:2)
  • Are you setting appropriate boundaries in your life to avoid this in the future?
  • Do you have an ongoing relationship with Jesus Christ on a daily basis and do you understand how important this is to true freedom from guilt?
  • If you are a Christian, have you asked God to lift this burden? (Matthew 11:28-30)
  • Are you willing to let God rebuild your life now according to His plan?
  • Do you have past or current behaviors that make you feel guilty or embarrassed?  Can we talk about how God wants you to get a fresh start in those areas and has provided a way to do that?
  • Do you know how to have God’s power for victory in this area?
  • Have you taken time to prayerfully consider how sexual impurity has affected your marriage relationship?
  • What might be one small step you could take today to move in the right direction and experience God’s power and joy?