• Does your spouse have a relationship with Christ?
    • Who besides yourself is aware of your spouse’s infidelity? Who is giving you advice about what to do now? What are they telling you? What do you think about what they are telling you?
    • Do you think your spouse is genuinely repentant or just sorry for getting caught? (2 Corinthians 7:10)
    • How are you dealing with your anger toward your spouse and their partner?
    • Are you tempted to believe that divorce will solve the problems?
    • You are not to blame for the affair, but are you willing to consider the problems in your marriage that contributed to it?
    • Do you believe that God is able to cause “all things to work together for good” even in this difficulty?
    • Where would you hope to be in your personal development one year from now? In your marriage? Spiritually? What do you think that it would take to get there?
    • What is one step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you do that?