FamilyLife Blended® Minute

When Parents Change the Rules

with | April 9, 2019
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You thought you knew what was expected but now you don't. Your parents read a good book or they go to a parenting class and they change their expectations. Then there are the parent-stepparent changes. For years you could be sarcastic with your brothers and then a stepparent enters the scene and takes it personally when you're sarcastic with your stepbrother. It's a pain. And it would help if they wouldn't take things quite so personally, but maybe you're going to have to stop being sarcastic.

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  • You thought you knew what was expected but now you don't. Your parents read a good book or they go to a parenting class and they change their expectations. Then there are the parent-stepparent changes. For years you could be sarcastic with your brothers and then a stepparent enters the scene and takes it personally when you're sarcastic with your stepbrother. It's a pain. And it would help if they wouldn't take things quite so personally, but maybe you're going to have to stop being sarcastic.

  • Ron Deal

    Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popular conference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended.

Hey kids, isn’t it annoying when parents change the rules!