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Questions Every Wife is Asking

A secret society of women and one token guy...daring to ask the questions we know you're thinking, but just aren’t sure who to ask.

Questions Every Wife is Asking

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Questions Every Wife Is Asking Podcast

Episode 2 | Why is he so touchy?

Brian Goins , Shaunti Feldhahn
November 2018

Does your husband sulk or get angry over the weirdest things? Shaunti Feldhahn explains common male triggers and what’s underneath them. She also provides a “next day rule” that will help you avoid these conflicts altogether.

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Welcome to “Questions Every Wife Is Asking” – Simple explanations for your husband’s most puzzling behaviors. Harvard graduate and best-selling author Shaunti Feldhahn, joined by Brian Goins of FamilyLife, boils down the findings from Shaunti’s multi-year, nationwide research into eye-opening conclusions. Odds are every wife is puzzled by her husband’s behavior and is asking the same questions you’re asking. Learn the real truth behind his actions and you will not only reinvigorate love, you’ll turn friction into intimacy.

Brian and his wife Jen love building into families and eating great food together. They have three children who all want to move to Montana. Brian serves as VP of Content Development at FamilyLife. He co-founded Catapult Concepts ( to help organizations launch messages that matter. He is also the executive producer on an adolescent-focused documentary series called Brain, Heart, World ( aimed at helping change the conversation about pornography in our country and has written Playing Hurt: A Guy’s Strategy for a Winning Marriage. 

Shaunti received her graduate degree from Harvard University and was an analyst on Wall Street before unexpectedly becoming a social researcher, best-selling author and popular speaker.  Today, she applies her analytical skills to investigating eye-opening, life-changing truths about relationships, both at home and in the workplace.  Her groundbreaking research-based books, such as For Women Only, have sold more than 2 million copies in 23 languages and are widely read in homes, counseling centers and corporations worldwide.

Her newest book, The Kindness Challenge, is catalyzing a movement of kindness across the country and beyond. Dozens of prominent organizations and leaders are coming together to do The 30-Day Kindness Challenge, and encourage their followers to do the same.

Shaunti’s findings are regularly featured in media as diverse as The Today Show and Focus on the Family, The New York Times and Cosmo.  She (often with her husband, Jeff) speaks at 50 events a year around the world. Shaunti and her husband Jeff live in Atlanta with their teenage daughter and son, and two cats who think they are dogs.