Well-Blended - Session 5 Survey (For Her)

There are a number of common unrealistic expectations that adults bring into their blended family. Do you recognize any of these in yourself? (Check all that apply.)

New family members will love each other immediately.
This marriage/family will be better than the last.
We can merge traditions quickly.
Our kids are invested in our marriage as much as we are.
My relationship with my children won’t have to change.
Things that trouble me will improve after the wedding.
Other

What expectation(s) or dream(s) of yours did your stepchildren not share?

Your response will be reviewed and graded after submission.

What specific obstacle(s) does your blended family face in becoming unified?

Your response will be reviewed and graded after submission.

What patterns of unity and connection are you already seeing in your blended family? (Check all that apply.)

A shared faith that guides your family
Shared humor
Existing traditions or rituals
Kid(s) showing patience
Kid(s) showing affection
Gratitude for and/or to one another
Respect
Willingness to work out conflict
Connectedness with at least one stepfamily member
A shared family interest
Rapport (gained through quality time, meaningful interactions, etc.)
One parent making efforts toward an isolated child
Conflict worked out productively
Our own marriage is prioritized
Respectful co-parent relationship(s)
Effort by one or more kids
Shared vision for family togetherness by one or more kids
Approval of the marriage by one or more kids
Other

What are some of the unique strengths of your blended family?

Your response will be reviewed and graded after submission.

What’s one sign of growth you’re still waiting on?

Your response will be reviewed and graded after submission.

Well-Blended – Session 5 Survey (For Her)

Well-Blended – Session 5 Survey (For Her)

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1. Question

There are a number of common unrealistic expectations that adults bring into their blended family. Do you recognize any of these in yourself? (Check all that apply.)

New family members will love each other immediately.

This marriage/family will be better than the last.

We can merge traditions quickly.

Our kids are invested in our marriage as much as we are.

My relationship with my children won’t have to change.

Things that trouble me will improve after the wedding.

Other

2. Question

What expectation(s) or dream(s) of yours did your stepchildren not share?

3. Question

What specific obstacle(s) does your blended family face in becoming unified?

4. Question

What patterns of unity and connection are you already seeing in your blended family? (Check all that apply.)

A shared faith that guides your family

Shared humor

Existing traditions or rituals

Kid(s) showing patience

Kid(s) showing affection

Gratitude for and/or to one another

Respect

Willingness to work out conflict

Connectedness with at least one stepfamily member

A shared family interest

Rapport (gained through quality time, meaningful interactions, etc.)

One parent making efforts toward an isolated child

Conflict worked out productively

Our own marriage is prioritized

Respectful co-parent relationship(s)

Effort by one or more kids

Shared vision for family togetherness by one or more kids

Approval of the marriage by one or more kids

Other

5. Question

What are some of the unique strengths of your blended family?

6. Question

What’s one sign of growth you’re still waiting on?