How long has this been a struggle? What steps have you taken in the past to overcome this?
What can you tell me about your media diet: TV, internet, movies, etc.? Are there certain times or places where you are especially tempted?
When was the last time you viewed pornography?
What has prompted you to seek help at this time? Did someone else discover this about you?
Who else have you told about this part of your life? What was their response/counsel to you?
What steps have you taken lately to move back toward the righteous lifestyle that God has designed for you?
How has this habit affected your home life? Your work life?
If married, how has this affected your marriage? Have you confessed this to your spouse?
What do you believe God’s view of you is during this struggle? Tell me what you believe is true about God and your relationship to Him right now.
What is one small step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you right now to get started?
Do you believe God’s power is sufficient for you in temptation?
What specific steps have you taken in the past to overcome this?
Are you willing to put safeguards in place to protect yourself from temptation? Can we discuss what those safeguards might entail? (e.g. Covenant Eyes online integrity software)
Do you still believe that God can give you the power to change, even if that change takes place gradually over time?
Do you understand God’s design for sexuality and how Satan seeks to twist and pervert what God created and called good?
Do you believe that God and His Word are your authority?
Do you have a redeemed relationship with God through Jesus Christ? If you aren’t sure, please read this article and let's discuss: "Would You Like to Know God Personally?"
Have you confessed your sin to God and asked for His forgiveness and for the power to change?
Have you been honest with your spouse about your struggles? If so how did those conversations turn out?
Do you feel like your spouse is an ally in this struggle against sin?
Are you truly really committed to changing this part of your life... whatever it takes?
What do you believe God's view of you is during this struggle? Tell me what you believe is true about God and your relationship to Him right now.
What is one step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you do that?
