Our Posture in Evangelism

While we may want to share the gospel, we are hesitant—even afraid—to engage in gospel conversations. However, life’s challenges and stressors provide opportunities for meaningful dialogue. We are all hardwired for a relationship with God and others. He often uses our struggles to reveal deeper needs.

Cru’s research unveiled three core longings all people have:

So how do we talk to people about these topics in authentic and inviting ways? Consider asking someone how they’ve been experiencing peace recently. As you listen, empathize with their challenges or celebrate their blessings. Asking good questions is an important part of building bridges of understanding. 

The research also highlighted five behaviors that create a positive environment for gospel conversations. These behaviors demonstrate genuine humility and interest in others, while also requiring emotional availability and empathy. Moments of connection like this take practice, time, energy, wisdom, compassion, and dependence on God’s Spirit. With a few adjustments, we can approach conversations differently and develop stronger relationships.

Five necessary behaviors emerged as starting points for gospel conversations:

Listen actively. Ask questions instead of seeking to share information. This opens doors for the gospel message.

Find common ground. Connect your story with theirs, using everyday language people can relate to. Listen for ways God’s redemptive story shows up in their lives.

Understand their perspective.  Understanding someone’s experiences takes time and intentionality, a willingness to ask questions and listen. Often it means sitting with them in their grief and pain, entering into the misfortune of another. 

Talk like a real person. Use words meant for people, not for the pews. Be open and honest about how God has helped you especially through challenging, painful, or dark times. Normal conversations build relationships where gospel stories can naturally and authentically be shared.

Offer a different perspective. The story many have heard about Christianity is skewed and distorted by bad experiences and misinformation. Share your personal experience and show them the true Jesus who understands suffering and injustice. Jesus and the gospel transformed your life, and He can also change theirs, too.

As you reflect the five behavior changes, which of those practices comes most easily? Which one is most challenging for you? Why do you think having this type of posture is important?

Come up with a list of 10 meaningful questions that can help you move past surface level conversations and then intentionally ask a few of those in a conversation this week. Ask the Lord for fruitful dialogue. Here’s a few examples to get you started: