Love Like You Mean It Assessment

1. I tend to remind my spouse or partner of their responsibilities a lot.

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2. Waiting for a reply from my spouse or partner is difficult.

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3. In conversation, I struggle to pay attention to topics I’m not interested in.

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4. When I help my spouse or partner with something I don’t expect them to return the favor.

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5. Oftentimes, I will anticipate the needs of my spouse or partner and meet them without prompting.

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6. When my spouse or partner makes mistakes, I think it could happen to anybody; including me.

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7. When my spouse or partner proves I’m wrong, it’s difficult to accept it.

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8. Certain tasks are beneath me.

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9. I know my strengths and weaknesses well.

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10. Oftentimes, I give in to my spouse or partner’s preferences for small decisions.

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11. When I have margin in my schedule, I let my spouse or partner know in case they need anything.

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12. I make sacrifices for my spouse or partner.

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13. I try to be calm and understanding with people who offend me.

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14. When I’m proven right, I’m likely to say “I told you so” to my spouse or partner.

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15. My spouse or partner would say I don’t use their mistakes as an excuse to be angry.

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16. Sometimes, I find it difficult to know the right thing to do.

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17. There is no such thing as absolute right or absolute wrong.

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18. Most of the time I choose to do what feels right to me.

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19. There have been moments in my relationship where my spouse or partner lost trust in me.

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20. Depending on the situation, it’s okay to lie.

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21. When I’ve done something hurtful or wrong, I try to make it known to my spouse or partner.

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22. I have difficulty maintaining enthusiasm in my relationship.

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23. When I face trials, I find it easy to to stay motivated.

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24. I like to work out relationship problems with my spouse or partner.

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25. When changes occur, I find it difficult to adapt.

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26. When I’m feeling sad, afraid, or angry I find healthy ways to express those feelings.

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27. I believe I can achieve my goals, even if there are obstacles.

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28. Please indicate the degree of happiness, all things considered, of your relationship.

Extremely unhappy