The Bottom Line: As you understand what is going on under the surface that isn’t really about the money, you can have more productive conversations and make whatever financial plan is right for the two of you. Money changes from being an opportunity for conflict, to being an opportunity for real connection. Discussion Questions: What […]

The Bottom Line: It’s okay that your spouse’s feelings, values, and ways of viewing money are different from yours. Discussion Questions: What are three things that matter to you which you feel I don’t really understand–or maybe dismiss? Do we need to build up more cushion in our finances? Since the first step to building […]

The Bottom Line Understanding what’s underneath you and your spouse’s responses to money empower you to talk about it. Then you can come together around money and make whatever plan you need to navigate this time well. Discussion Questions Where do we fall on an ‘ability to talk about money’ scale from 1 to 10 […]