Start a Stepfamily Ministry

FamilyLife Blended® provides bibically-based resources that help prevent re-divorce, strengthen stepfamilies, and help break the generational cycle of divorce.

Minister to stepfamilies in your community

Is God calling you to minister to blended families? Learn how you can help prevent redivorce.

Stepfamilies comprise a significant portion of societies throughout the world. The unique dynamics of stepfamily living present many barriers to marital oneness and family harmony, which is one reason the divorce rate for blended family couples is 10-25% higher than couples in first marriages. When was the last time you taught a marriage course specifically for stepcouples? Have you modified your premarital ministry to help couples anticipate the unique challenges of stepfamily life?

Now you can join churches all over the world who are upgrading their marriage ministries to equip stepcouples to build homes of redemption. Take these steps:

1 – Become educated about the unique dynamics of stepfamily living and learn the essential elements of blended family ministry. Attend the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry by yourself or with other members of your church leadership to gain a vision for ministry, meet the leaders in the field, and network with others around the country.

DIY Training: Get the All-Access Digital Pass of previous Summits and study online.

DIY Suggested Resource: The Certificate in Blended Family Ministry.

2 – You can sign up today to host the Blended & Blessed livestream in your church or community. You can even host an event in your home with your small group or a group of friends, bringing together couples for one incredible day of teaching. Join others around the world as we unpack strategies that are crucial to healthy stepfamily marriages. With some of today’s most trusted and respected experts, Blended & Blessed will challenge, inspire, and encourage. Learn more about Blended & Blessed.

3 – Share what you’ve learned with key leaders in your church and identify your leadership team. Also, share this Marriage Ministry Tip Sheet with your marriage ministry leaders and ask them to insert teaching for blended family couples into their educational programs.

4 – Choose your ministry strategy: You might host a conference, start a small group/Bible study, modify your existing marriage and parent training to address stepfamily realities, or do all of the above.


“We started our stepfamily ministry in the fall. We have twenty or so couples who attend on a somewhat regular basis on Sundays and for monthly social activities…Several non-churched families attended the workshop and have started to attend the Sunday morning class. Many of our families have changed so much of what they do and how they act…Thank you so much. Marriages have been saved and even more important, some lives are being opened up by the Holy Spirit.”
– Dave Williams, Canton, Ohio

Suggested resources for group or individual use: 1) Start with The Smart Stepfamily DVD Small Group Resourceand 2) then study The Smart Stepfamily Marriage

For information on hosting a stepfamily conference with bestselling author Ron Deal, click here.

5 – Learn as much about blended families as you can and become familiar with the resources available. Start by reading The Smart Stepfamilybut become familiar with The Smart StepmomThe Smart StepdadThe Smart Stepfamily Marriage, and Dating and the Single Parent (for singles), and Preparing to Blend.

6 – Contact the FamilyLife Blended team for ideas, encouragement, and guidance as you implement your blended family ministry. Contact us at

In addition, checkout these online resources from Ron Deal’s Smart Stepfamilies Ministry: