Act Like You Know What You’re Doing
A high school baseball umpire unexpectantly found himself umping a college game and he wasn't prepared. The chief umpire told him, "I don't care if you make the right call or not, just be in the right position, and make the call with authority." That's pretty good advice for parents and stepparents. Be in the right position: Be engaged in your child's life. And make the call with authority: We don't always know best but when we lead with certainty, we manage the game and keep the players safe.
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A high school baseball umpire unexpectantly found himself umping a college game and he wasn't prepared. The chief umpire told him, "I don't care if you make the right call or not, just be in the right position, and make the call with authority." That's pretty good advice for parents and stepparents. Be in the right position: Be engaged in your child's life. And make the call with authority: We don't always know best but when we lead with certainty, we manage the game and keep the players safe.
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Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popular conference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended.
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If nothing else, act like you know what you’re doing.
