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Hats off to you for lending your life experience to a stronger, closer marriage for someone else.
Find resources to mentor them toward a happier, healthier forever.

Doesn’t take much energy, time, or thought to take your married sex life from sizzling to non-existent. Snag tips on what not to do. Read more

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Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® | Transparency In Sexual Intimacy

Ever find yourself holding back because you fear total transparency–about your past, desires, failures, faults–will bring judgment, rejection, or even just unwanted friction? Ryan and Selena Frederick, authors of the book See Through Marriage chat about why openness and honesty in married sex are such a big deal.

Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® | Things I Wish I Knew Before Marriage

FamilyLife Today podcast host Ann Wilson talks to engaged women about things to keep in mind, things to be prepared for, and things to talk about with your fiance before getting married.

Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® |  The Purpose of Your Marriage

FamilyLife cofounders Dennis and Barbara Rainey reveal 20 things they learned about marriage in their 44 years together.

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Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® | How Your EQ Determines Your Happiness in Marriage

Emotional intelligence isn’t as innate as it seems. But it might be a far bigger player in your marriage than you anticipate. Read more

Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® | Evaluating Your Spiritual Relationship Before Marriage

More than any other factor—really—your spiritual compatibility will influence your future marriage.Read more

Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® | Are You a Good Listener?

Are You a Good Listener?

A lot of us would probably consider ourselves great listeners. But would we know it if we weren’t? Take our quiz to find patterns in your strengths and not-so-strengths.

Preparing to Blend by Ron Deal

Have a child from a previous relationship?

Preparing to Blend offers wise counsel on parenting, finances, establishing family identity, and daily routines for your new life together.

Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® |  Preparing to Blend by Ron Deal

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Take our brief couples’ assessment to zoom in on the strengths and growth areas of your unique relationship.

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Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® |  Well Blended

Blending a family can be complicated! This encouraging course will help you build robust, resilient character in the unique mashup that is your family. 

Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® |  The Nearly Complete Guide

How did sex get so complicated? Our hearts and souls are connected to our bodies, so sex grapples with aspects of your entire relationship. This course encourages you toward more satisfied, healing, creative sex from the soul and out. 

FOR MENTORS

Congratulations on a beautiful, all-in decision! Find resources to not only kick things off right, but also help you say “I do” with eyes wide open–and weatherproof your relationship for a stronger forever.

Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® | 23 Questions to Get to What Matters

23 Questions to Get to What Matters

These ideas can help your conversations with mentees stay real, worthwhile, and meaty.

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Mentor’s Guide

What mentors do before, during, and after preparing for marriage.


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Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® | Mentor's Guide

How do you get people to keep talking when they mention something difficult?

Valuable mentoring relationships won’t always feel good–but difficult conversations can also be life-changing ones. Here’s how to help someone talk about the hard.

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Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® | Mentoring over coffee

Think you’d like to be a mentor? Start with coffee. Seminary professors Barbara Neumann and Dr. Sue Edwards encourage us to be attentive to the mentoring opportunities around us, and to forget the idea that mentoring has to be overly structured.

Preparing to Blend by Ron Deal

Have a child from a previous relationship?

Preparing to Blend offers wise counsel on parenting, finances, establishing family identity, and daily routines for your new life together.

Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® | Preparing to Blend by Ron Deal

ARTICLES TO HELP ALONG THE WAY

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Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® | 5 Essentials for a Thriving Marriage

Help mentees evaluate how they could elevate their marriage before it starts. Read more

Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® | When Your Friends are Moving In Together Before Marriage

They’re planning on living together before getting married. As a mentor, what’s your response look like? Read more

Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® | How Your EQ Determines Your Happiness in Marriage

“I do” can—and in some ways should—feel daunting. But maybe your mentees don’t have to know a few things they assumed would be dialed in. Read more

Engaging or Preparing for Marriage | FamilyLife® | Why We Need Marriage

When mentees exhausted from wedding prep wonder if marriage is actually necessary, be ready with a few critical truths about its purpose and beauty. Read more