Don’t Get Sucked Under
Brenda told me her husband's ex-wife still cared for their 39-year-old alcoholic daughter and expected his help financially. Brenda asked, "When does co-parenting end?" Mentoring never ends, but financing an adult's irresponsibility should have ended long ago. If your husband isn't careful, he'll be pulled under with his drowning daughter and ex-wife and you. A skilled swimmer really can help a drowning person. Just because they are under-functioning in life doesn't mean you should join them.
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Brenda told me her husband's ex-wife still cared for their 39-year-old alcoholic daughter and expected his help financially. Brenda asked, "When does co-parenting end?" Mentoring never ends, but financing an adult's irresponsibility should have ended long ago. If your husband isn't careful, he'll be pulled under with his drowning daughter and ex-wife and you. A skilled swimmer really can help a drowning person. Just because they are under-functioning in life doesn't mean you should join them.
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Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popular conference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended.
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Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and ...more
When helping a drowning person be careful not to get pulled under, too.
Ron: When helping a drowning person be careful not to get pulled under, too.
Announcer: For FamilyLife Blended®, here’s Ron Deal.
Ron: Brenda wrote to me saying that her husband’s ex-wife was still taking care of their 39-year-old alcoholic daughter. Plus, the ex-wife repeatedly asks for money and expects Brenda’s husband, to help care for the daughter. Brenda asked, “When does co-parenting end?”
Well, mentoring never ends, but financing an adult’s irresponsibility should have ended a long time ago. If your husband isn’t careful, he’ll get pulled under with his drowning daughter and ex-wife and take you with him. Look, a skilled swimmer—those are the ones who really can help a drowning person. Just because they are under-functioning in life doesn’t mean you should join them. For FamilyLife Blended, I’m Ron Deal.
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