Facing a Marital Crisis
Well, I can't speak to specific circumstances, but in general do two things: First, speak out of your desire for the relationship not your anger at the person. You don't say, "You don't care about me." Instead say, "I miss us. I want to figure this out." And second, if you're really stuck, you need a marriage therapist. You need more than a book or a conference. You need someone really trained to handle marital issues. It may take awhile to find the right therapist but your marriage is worth it.
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Well, I can't speak to specific circumstances, but in general do two things: First, speak out of your desire for the relationship not your anger at the person. You don't say, "You don't care about me." Instead say, "I miss us. I want to figure this out." And second, if you're really stuck, you need a marriage therapist. You need more than a book or a conference. You need someone really trained to handle marital issues. It may take awhile to find the right therapist but your marriage is worth it.
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Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and ...more
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