Possessions vs. Family
Have you seen the car commercial where the husband lies to his wife so he can drive his new car? The caption is, "You'll do anything to take it for a drive." Really? This car is so special you'd rather betray your wife than not drive it? The assumption people value possessions more than family seems ludicrous when you say it out-loud, but what if there's some truth to it? If someone were to document how much time and energy you put into your possessions, might they believe you cherish them more?
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Have you seen the car commercial where the husband lies to his wife so he can drive his new car? The caption is, "You'll do anything to take it for a drive." Really? This car is so special you'd rather betray your wife than not drive it? The assumption people value possessions more than family seems ludicrous when you say it out-loud, but what if there's some truth to it? If someone were to document how much time and energy you put into your possessions, might they believe you cherish them more?
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Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popular conference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended.
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Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and ...more
What’s more important to you-possessions or people?
Ron: What’s more important to you—possessions or people?
Announcer: For FamilyLife Blended®, here’s Ron Deal.
Ron: Have you seen the car commercial where the husband lies to his wife just so he can drive his new car? The caption is, “You’ll do anything to take it for a drive.” Really? This car is so special that you’d rather betray your wife than not drive it? And do advertisers believe that sort of thing will work? What does that say about us?
The assumption that people value possessions more than family seems ludicrous when you say it out-loud, but what if there’s some truth to it? Let me ask it this way: If someone were to document how much time and energy you put into your possessions, might they believe you cherish them more? For FamilyLife Blended, I’m Ron Deal.
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