Put Aside the Blender Mentality
Six years ago, our pastor told my husband to take over the discipline of my two kids since he was now the "man of the house." All we did was mess things up. Yep, you got bad advice. Your pastor had good intentions, but he didn't understand stepfamilies. If you're a helper, ministry leader, even a therapist, get informed about stepfamily living. Attend our two-day summit that equips leaders, go online, or read a book. Misguided good intentions can harm a family. Get wisdom and give good advice.
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About the Guest
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Six years ago, our pastor told my husband to take over the discipline of my two kids since he was now the "man of the house." All we did was mess things up. Yep, you got bad advice. Your pastor had good intentions, but he didn't understand stepfamilies. If you're a helper, ministry leader, even a therapist, get informed about stepfamily living. Attend our two-day summit that equips leaders, go online, or read a book. Misguided good intentions can harm a family. Get wisdom and give good advice.
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Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and ...more
You know what? Well-intended bad advice…is still bad advice.
Ron: You know what? Well-intended bad advice…is still bad advice.
Announcer: For FamilyLife Blended®, here’s Ron Deal.
Ron: “Ron, six years ago our pastor gave us some really bad advice. He told my husband to take over the discipline of my two kids since he was now the ‘man of the house.’ All we did was mess things up.” Yep, you got bad advice. Your pastor had good intentions, but he didn’t understand stepfamilies.
If you’re a helper, ministry leader, even a therapist, you need to get informed about stepfamily living. Attend our two-day summit that equips leaders, go online, read a book, do something. Learn what you need to know. Misguided good intentions can do harm to a family. Get smart wisdom and give good advice. For FamilyLife Blended, I’m Ron Deal.
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