FamilyLife Blended® Minute

Various Love Motivations

with Ron Deal | February 13, 2020
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That's one blended family challenge discussed by Dr. Gary Chapman and me in our book Building Love Together in Blended Families. Don't get me wrong, sometimes everyone in a stepfamily is equally motivated toward loving like family, but not always. Parents are generally very motivated, but kids vary. If you're a highly motivated person you can draw inspiration from God-who loves everyone despite many being distracted or unmotivated to love him. There are no guarantees. Just keep loving.

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  • That's one blended family challenge discussed by Dr. Gary Chapman and me in our book Building Love Together in Blended Families. Don't get me wrong, sometimes everyone in a stepfamily is equally motivated toward loving like family, but not always. Parents are generally very motivated, but kids vary. If you're a highly motivated person you can draw inspiration from God-who loves everyone despite many being distracted or unmotivated to love him. There are no guarantees. Just keep loving.

  • Ron Deal

    Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popular conference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended.

How do you form a loving relationship with someone who isn’t motivated to love you?