What’s My Part?
Most of us when we tell a story about an argument we had, we talk about what the other person said and did, as if we contributed nothing to the exchange. Convenient, huh. Blame them and absolve ourselves of any responsibility. Now here's a thought. Ask yourself, "What's my part? How did I contribute to them acting the way they did? And what should I do differently next time?" Sure you need to share the blame, but more importantly, you need to know what you can do to make things better.
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Most of us when we tell a story about an argument we had, we talk about what the other person said and did, as if we contributed nothing to the exchange. Convenient, huh. Blame them and absolve ourselves of any responsibility. Now here's a thought. Ask yourself, "What's my part? How did I contribute to them acting the way they did? And what should I do differently next time?" Sure you need to share the blame, but more importantly, you need to know what you can do to make things better.
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Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and ...more
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