FamilyLife Blended® Minute

What’s Your Bias?

with | July 22, 2019
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Social conversations about race and bias are much needed. I recognize my bias and I'm trying to manage it. But bias can even be toward people we love. One guy, who feared before his marriage that his wife would not commit to him, later said, "My wife reads her favorite books on marriage and family but she won't read mine. Is this her putting her kids before me?" Hey, I think your confirmation bias won't let you see what she is doing. Doubt is blinding you. What about you? Can you see your bias?

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  • Social conversations about race and bias are much needed. I recognize my bias and I'm trying to manage it. But bias can even be toward people we love. One guy, who feared before his marriage that his wife would not commit to him, later said, "My wife reads her favorite books on marriage and family but she won't read mine. Is this her putting her kids before me?" Hey, I think your confirmation bias won't let you see what she is doing. Doubt is blinding you. What about you? Can you see your bias?

  • Ron Deal

    Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popular conference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended.

So, what’s your bias?