Caleb Kaltenbach

Caleb Kaltenbach is lead pastor at Discovery Church, Simi Valley, California. The author of Messy Grace: How a Pastor with Gay Parents Learned to Love Others Without Sacrificing Conviction, he speaks widely on faith, reconciliation, and sexual diversity to people on all sides of the LGBT issue. Caleb attended Talbot School of Theology (Biola University) and is currently finishing his DMin at Dallas Theological Seminary. He and his wife, Amy, have two young children.

Grace Filled Living

Grace-Filled Living

What is the difference between giving grace and giving in? Paul David Tripp, Tim Kimmel, Ron Deal, and Caleb Kaltenbach explain what grace is: in parenting, marriage, or relationships with a watching world.

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Loving Our Gay Friends and Neighbors

Pastor Caleb Kaltenbach recalls the first time his mother came to hear one of his sermons when he was a young pastoral intern, much to the angst of the elders.

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Loving My Gay Parents

Caleb Kaltenbach reflects on growing up with a mom and dad who divorced when he was 2 because they had each realized they were gay. Caleb offers unique insight on how the gay community perceives Christians.

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