Paul Gilbert

Paul Gilbert is the Lead Pastor of Four Oaks Community Church. Paul has an MDiv and an MA from Reformed Theological Seminary in Marriage and Family Therapy as well as a Ph.D. in Marriage and Family from Florida State University. He has studied extensively on the subject of forgiveness and family systems. Paul currently serves on the board of Am I Called Ministries and lives in Tallahassee, Florida, with his wife, Susan, and their four children.

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Loving My Prodigal

Dave Harvey and Paul Gilbert describe what it’s like for the person living with a prodigal. They explain the indicators that tell the person when it’s time to release the prodigal and let them go.

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Love Has Teeth

When you love someone who continually makes wrong choices, what should you do? Dave Harvey and Paul Gilbert say, the offended must exhibit a rugged love that draws boundaries, and doesn’t enable sinful behavior.

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Rugged Love for Wayward Souls

Pastors Dave Harvey and Paul Gilbert address the weighty topic of rebellion and expand the idea of a prodigal to include not only our children, but anyone who’s straying.

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