Dreaming of your future spouse? Pastor Dan Chun encourages singles to closely observe the person they’re dating and invites them to ask some key questions. Once infatuated, or in the weird zone as he calls it, it’s hard to judge a person’s character accurately. Chun advises singles to take their time to really get to know their boyfriend or girlfriend. Preparing properly for marriage, Chun reminds, will increase your chance of success in marriage. Dan Chun also reminisces about his own failed marriage, and tells how he approached love and marriage differently the second time around. Chun walks us through the High C’s of good mate selection: Choice, Character, Chemistry, Competency, Culture, Commitment and Communication.
DAN CHUN has been the senior pastor of First Presbyterian Church in Honolulu for the past twenty years, and he is a member of the board of trustees of Fuller Theological Seminary. A former news-caster and award-winning filmmaker, Dan’s personal experience with divorce motivates him to work closely with never-married, divorced and widowed people. Previously, he served as the singles pastor at Menlo Park Presbyterian Church. Dan and his wife are parents of three grown children and live with their two dogs, Max and Molly. Visit him at HowtoPickaSpouse.com.