Parents are people, which means they make mistakes. Sometimes the mistakes are due to negligence and other times are simply unintentional blunders. Some mistakes bring about serious and hurtful consequences while others are easily brushed off. Have you ever yelled at your child out of frustration or fatigue? Have you ever said something mean or hurtful because you were having a bad day? Or missed a school function because you forgot? You are not alone.

The important thing to do when you make a mistake is to own it. Not only is it the right thing to do, it’s also a great opportunity to model what apology, confession, and repentance looks like for your child. Younger children are quick to forgive and to express love. Older children may respond more slowly. Give them room to deal with anger or pain; even so, keep assuring them of your love. “Love covers a multitude of sins” (1 Peter 4:8).