Day 13: Cracking Open a Window

Awake, O north wind, and come, O south wind! Blow upon my garden, let its spices flow. Let my beloved come to his garden, and eat its choicest fruits.—Song of Solomon 4:16

Romance usually comes naturally when we’re dating. We’re writing notes, showing up with a favorite coffee, meandering on long walks, pressing “send” on flirty texts.

But romance matters to your marriage, too. It’s a little like throwing open the windows—keeping the everyday alive, fresh, exciting, thriving. Taking a deep breath.

On the other hand, everyday life has a way of keeping those windows closed. Schedules void of white space, thrumming phones, and tilting piles of laundry have their ways of keeping things stuffy; stultifying.

But it doesn’t take much to throw open a window. What’s one thing you could do this week to give your relationship a breath of fresh air?

Praying together for our marriage

He prays: Ask God to help you work together to maintain—or reignite—the romance in your marriage.

She prays: Ask God for wisdom in keeping a healthy balance in your responsibilities and commitments, and to intentionally make time for romance.

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