Keep Your Time
Some segments of society view men as peripheral to the family. Both sides buy the lie-some moms would prefer he step back, and he is willing to back out. A divorced man said to me once, "If my kids don't want to come over I don't make them." I said, "Why? Why would you do that? Do you let them decide not to eat their vegetables or do their homework? I sure hope not." Kids don't always know what they need. That's why God gave them parents. Don't back out. Keep your time. Your love matters.
Show Notes
About the Guest
-
Some segments of society view men as peripheral to the family. Both sides buy the lie-some moms would prefer he step back, and he is willing to back out. A divorced man said to me once, "If my kids don't want to come over I don't make them." I said, "Why? Why would you do that? Do you let them decide not to eat their vegetables or do their homework? I sure hope not." Kids don't always know what they need. That's why God gave them parents. Don't back out. Keep your time. Your love matters.
-
Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and ...more
When it comes to time with your kids, backing out is backing down.
Ron: When it comes to time with your kids, backing out is backing down.
Announcer: For FamilyLife Blended®, here’s Ron Deal.
Ron: In some segments of our society, men are viewed as peripheral to the family. Both sides buy the lie—some moms would just prefer that he step back, and he is willing to back out. A divorced man said to me once, “If my kids don’t want to come over for the weekend I don’t make them.” I said, “Why? Why would you do that? Do you let them decide not to eat their vegetables or do their homework? I sure hope not.”
Kids don’t always know what they need. That’s why God gave them parents. Plus, maybe they don’t want to come because they’re not sure you want them there. Don’t back out. Keep your time. Your love matters. For FamilyLife Blended, I’m Ron Deal.
Announcer: To find out more visit familylifeblended.com.
FamilyLife Blended with Ron Deal is a production of FamilyLife. Help for today. Hope for tomorrow.
We are so happy to provide these transcripts to you. However, there is a cost to produce them for our website. If you’ve benefited from the broadcast transcripts, would you consider donating today to help defray the costs?
Visit http://www.familylifeblended.com/donate.
Copyright © 2021 FamilyLife. All rights reserved.
