35: Second Wife, Second Life

As a second wife or husband, have you ever felt second best? Or treated as second class by others? How can you be first in your spouse’s heart when you’re not the ONLY? In this episode, Ron Deal talks with Lore Ferguson Wilbert about how to combat your insecurities that naturally arise in second marriages. Perhaps there’s a lack of trust, shame, or feelings of competition with your partner’s former spouse. Whatever the reason, insecurities dissipate when we look to God as our source of love for our identity. We can respond from His wellspring of love even in the midst of hard emotions, offering compassion for our spouse instead of competition with someone who isn’t even in the picture anymore.