Brian Goins

Brian and his wife Jen love building into families and eating great food together. They have three children who all want to move to Montana. Brian serves as Sr. Director Special Projects at FamilyLife. He is also the executive producer on an adolescent-focused documentary series called Brain, Heart, World (brainheartworld.org) aimed at helping change the conversation about pornography in our country and has written Playing Hurt: A Guy’s Strategy for a Winning Marriage.

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Who do happy couples attribute their happiness to? Themselves or their partners? Learn the power of humility and expressing gratitude for your better half. View Show Notes →
Who comes first in a marriage? And how to communicate it well? Learn how to prioritize marriage in a blended family with Ron Deal and Gayla Grace! View Show Notes →
True or False? One of the best ways to resolve conflict in marriage is to let go of it. Listen in to learn the the art of "conflict amnesia." View Show Notes →
Divorce and Christians: there are some misunderstandings around its prevalence. Find out how keeping God at the center helps makes highly happy couples. View Show Notes →
Can you keep an eye on the exit and have a happy marriage? Explore how vulnerability in relationships—being "all in"—leads to greater trust and happiness. View Show Notes →
We can all agree that open communication is good for healthy relationships. But is there such a thing as being 'too honest'? Listen in as hosts Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn discuss! View Show Notes →
Struggling to get a consistent date night? Not to worry. Hosts Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn are joined by Dr. Brad Wilcox, renowned sociologist specializing in marriage and family research, […] View Show Notes →
Not all fantasies are created equally: one type is the leading cause of unhappiness in marriage. But how do you avoid pitfalls and pursue contentment? View Show Notes →
Do you manage your emotions...or do they manage you? Learn how deliberate emotional management can promote your happiness—both maritally and otherwise. View Show Notes →
You've probably heard the marriage advice: don't try to keep score. Hosts Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn suggest there's one tally that might actually be good to track in Christian marriage—find out what it is! View Show Notes →
Highly happy' is possible for marriage. But how do you get there? Join us today for a roadmap for perseverance in relationship growth and positive change! View Show Notes →
If you've never wondered yourself, you may have had someone ask you that question. In this special teaser episode to Season 4 of Married with Benefits, hosts Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins are joined by Dr. Brad Wilcox, a renowned sociologist specializ View Show Notes →
Men, having other guy friends is key for successful marriages, parenting, and your overall well-being. But how do those kinds of relationships work? View Show Notes →
Ever wonder if your spouse is hiding something? Dave Wilson and Brian Goins host Ed Uszynski, and Darrin Mabuni to discuss why the dark parts of your marriage need the light. View Show Notes →
Why is prayer important? It's a battlefield! Brian Goins, Ed Uszynski, and Darrin Mabuni discuss prayer roles as a husband and ways to make it a superpower in marriage and daily life. View Show Notes →
Wonder how your spouse would react if they knew what you were really like? David & Meg Robbins get real about the challenges of vulnerability in marriage. View Show Notes →
Dave and Ann Wilson empathize with feeling unloved in your own marriage. Find ideas for stronger connection and deeper intimacy. View Show Notes →
Dave and Ann Wilson share tips on how to grow together, get more honest, and choose other practical steps to kickstart a stronger year together. View Show Notes →
Could your sex life be missing the point? Dr. Michael Sytsma talks about why we have sex…and the key to wow-level sex that changes everything. View Show Notes →
Has your married sex coasted into the blahs? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma's got solutions to keep you both captivated in the bedroom. View Show Notes →